The Three Latinas You'll Meet in Mexico
The use of English is on a sliding scale of economic stability
I can imagine both Foreign dudes and Mexican women may get hurt by this. No one likes to get shit on - But it is true.
Lowest Tier - The women that don’t speak English.
Many Gringos brag about using Google Translate to get through a date.. when this happens; I know the girl is either busted, shallow class or both. Any dude that tells you he pulled a stunner with google translate is lying. The chick is a six at best.
If the girl doesn’t speak English in a city, she is almost always from a lower-class environment. Mexican families understand the importance of English. They’ll send their kids to private schools, from preschool to university, if they have the money t give them a leg up.
It’s also not hard to learn English when Mexico consumes so much American media. I have many friends that learned simply from watching TV and being on the internet often.
I’m not saying Mexicans need to learn English… I’m also not looking down on less fortunate people. But the fact of the matter is. Suppose you have the means to travel internationally. You should not be dating girls from bad neighborhoods. You are in a different social class.
The relationship is going nowhere.
She probably wants to hook up with a foreigner because it’s a flex or a fetish. I want you to be better than that.
Mid-Tier Women - Speaks English with relative fluency.
There’s another group of gringos that finds chicks that speak English. These girls are comfort foods, and most guys get trapped here. Because she speaks English, the gringo rarely has to improve his Spanish. He puts in no work and can flex to his friends that he got a Latina.
Rarely does anyone ask Why? Why does this girl speak English so well? Why are so many of her friends also foreign? Why does she date foreigners?
Pro Tip -With English fluency brings western ideas.
But he often never asks why. Why does this girl communicate in English so well? Why does she have so many English-speaking friends?
These girls are usually mid-level attractive, upwards of a 7.5 if you get lucky.
These girls can’t get swiped up by top-tier locals… They’ve probably adopted more masculine(western feminism traits) from the media.. and they likely find comfort in gringos instead of locals.
They may low-key have a disdain for gringos despite dating multiple.
Don't;t get trapped here because These girls are familiar and comfortable; you’ll be happy enough. But you’ll never get the full latina experience. She might not even know how to cook. You’re just dating or hooking up with a person with the title Latina and without the culture.
Top Tier Latina
Understands English perfectly, Barely speaks it. Sometimes refuses to speak at all. No need.
If you haven’t figured it out - The point of this post is that you learn Spanish.
Most attractive and feminine Latinas in the Top Tier will come from relatively well-off families. They have an excellent education, great relationships with their fathers, and be highly feminine.
They may have spent their whole lives in private school. They understand English and use it at work occasionally but have no intention of speaking it in their daily life with a gringo. They may have even traveled outside the country without intending to leave Mexico.
Why? Why would she?
She garners the attention of high-status locals.
She knows she’s high status. Why would she speak a foreign language in her own country for some gringo when a rich Mexican guy might swoop her up.
It would be a significant L for her to bring a gringo around her friends, and he doesn’t speak even basic Spanish.
It would possibly turn off a lot of high-status locals if they knew she hung with too many gringos.
These chicks might be Models, have their hustles, or young white color workers.
You typically won’t even meet them because they don’t hang out in stringified areas as much.
The point is. Is order to break into the high level of Mexican society. It would be best to learn some Spanish and still be a solid catch yourself.
You won’t be able to dress in shorts and flip-flops and approach these girls.
Summary.
I’m sure this article hurt a couple of guys’ feelings. They know they’ve been exciting low-status bare latina chicks on Twitter, and no one has called them out.
For those looking to step your game up, you now know some of the signs to look for when making friends and dating in Mexico.
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Its funny but this is an interesting idea. It's a good idea to add in the mess
My wife to be is in the 3rd group.
Has a PHD from a normal but educated , watch movies in english but dont like speaking as much. she does not hangout so much with gringo like the 2nd group you mentionned unless they are Uni professors and research.
However this is not always true i did date a doctor , well paid but (from a lower class family). Struggle a lot learning english.