Can the life of a player be "Dangerous"

When it comes to women who got a lotta notches on their bedpost, people always give them for not being able to hold down a relationship or be a good mom. But when it's a dude who's a straight-up "player" with a ton of sexual experience, nobody says anything.

Here's the thing, folks - both genders can get bored and start lookin' for somethin' new. Now, I’m not that getting some action when you're young isn’t a good thing, especially if you're a dude. But if you wanna settle down, get yourself a wife and start a family, going round bangin' every chick you see isn’t all its cracked up to be. It’s typically the dudes with nothing the idolize players and think life is greener on the other side

Chad and Ashly

Lets say there's this couple - Chad and Ashley - and they both work for this organization that used to give me a paycheck a while back. So I'm chillin' with this former colleague of mine who's still in the game, and he gives me the lowdown on what's been goin' on there. What he told me about Chad and Ashley's relationship was some intriguing, yet depressing.

Lemme set the stage for ya. There's this dude named Chad - and let me tell ya, he's a natural when it comes to pickin' up women. I'm talkin' a lay count of nearly five hundred, which is straight-up impressive. He's got all the physical and attitudinal traits you need to slay with the ladies - tall, good-looking, and he's got this sick verbal banter game. This guy's a straight-up contender. But here's the kicker - he's also got some real "dark triad" traits, like narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. And let me tell ya, it's these traits that really seal the deal for him with the opposite sex.

Now, let me tell ya about Chad's track record when it comes to office romance - or lack thereof. This guy's been involved in several high-profile relationships within the workplace, totally disregarding the whole "don't sht where you eat" thing. One of 'em was with this young and attractive girl named Sarah, who was around twenty-five years old. They dated for a solid two years, and during that time Chad even bought her a breast enlargement - talk about a power move. He even moved in with her, but after about eighteen months he started gettin' bored and moved out. But here's where it gets juicy - he started seein' Ashley at the same time as Sarah. And when that sht hit the fan, it was a public mess that was broadcasted all over social media and beyond.

For a hot minute there, it seemed like Chad and Ashley were living the dream. Ashley - blonde and still fine as hell at thirty-six - apparently had a major impact on Chad's life. The story goes that she was the one to "tame" him, and that for once in his life, he was ready to grow the hell up and commit to a good woman. It was like the perfect fairy tale romance, with a former player finally settling down with his queen.

So, at the end of last year, Chad and Ashley tied the knot. And let me tell ya, it was a swanky affair - an expensive ceremony at some exclusive country house venue. The black and white photos captured the happy couple stepping into this new phase of their lives with big, goofy grins on their faces. And let me tell ya, Ashley was positively beaming with triumph - like she'd finally won the ultimate prize.

The good times were short-lived, my friend. After a mere six months of wedded bliss, shit hit the fan when news broke that Chad had been banging a hot young intern named Kristen (22, and no slouch in the looks department). Naturally, all hell broke loose and Ashley gave Chad the boot from their marital pad. But get this: she was still willing to forgive him! They were gonna work through it, make it right... until she discovered that Chad was still sneaking around with Kristen on the down-low. Now Ashley's quit her job at the office, too humiliated to show her face there anymore. And Chad? Well, the guy's still unapologetic as ever, still boning that young piece of ass without a care in the world about saving his marriage. And to top it all off, they dropped something like sixty grand on that wedding.

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You Can’t Put It Back In The Bottle

It's like trying to resist a plate of steaming hot pizza, but the pizza is actually an endless buffet of sexual options. Monogamy is a tough game, and in today's age of swiping left and right, it's even harder to resist the temptation of exploring different flavors. But let's face it, whether monogamy is natural or not, it's a moot point. The truth is, it's a real struggle to commit to just one person in a world that offers so much variety. So if you're a dude who wants to settle down one day, you might want to think twice before indulging in too much variety. My writing is all about meeting and attracting women for the purposes of finding a partner or experimenting, but there's a dark side to being a serial player. You can do what you want with your life, but don't be surprised if you find yourself in a world of hurt when the game is over

In 2016, with smartphones and Tinder and more lax societal conventions around sex, it’s certainly a hell of a lot more difficult. As a man, this is something worth bearing in mind. What is it that you really want? If one day you would like to settle down with one woman and have kids then realise that experiencing variety may not benefit you.

Women Love Damaged Men

Chad's tale offers a lesson for those seeking to charm women. Some may envy his ability to entice women, even if it's not in their best interest—consider the risk Emily was willing to take to sleep with him. Regrettably, this story confirms that many women are attracted to troubled men. Chad's high score in the dark triad of personality traits—narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy—render him irresistible to many women. However, these same characteristics make him unfit for commitment or family life. Perhaps he is content with this, but if you're not, then you should contemplate your life goals and devise a strategy to achieve them.